I thought I had a pretty good idea of the benefits of homeschooling when we started our journey fifteen years ago. I would be home with my kids. We would strengthen our family bond. Reading time would be our number one priority! I could give the kids a firm foundation in God’s word and move through our curriculum at each child’s pace.
I was sure I knew what to expect. All of those benefits are certainly things we’ve experienced over the years. However, I was surprised by some of the unexpected benefits we’ve discovered along the way.
5 Unexpected Benefits of Homeschooling
Learning alongside my child. When I started homeschooling, I was doing so to provide my kids with an education tailored to their needs. I had no idea how much I would be learning alongside them. Big things and little things. I remember the big points from early history classes I took in school, but I had no idea how much I really don’t know. I find myself learning new things every day in all our subjects – from science and history to grammar and foreign language. For me, this is a huge plus for homeschool moms!
Kids can follow their academic passions. I’ve mentioned before that Emma spent three years studying biology, because she is obsessed with animals. I threw in an occasional study of plants or the solar system to broaden her horizons. When I left the decision up to her, however, we always came back around to animals. I knew that, eventually, she’d have to have a little more structure to fulfill her high school requirements. In the meantime, I had the freedom to let her study what she loved.
Whether your kids is passionate about animals or plants or math or ancient history, homeschooling gives them the time and freedom to explore those and more.
Kids can follow their extra-curricular passions. In addition to academic passions, homeschool kids can pursue their extra-curricular passions, as well. Em has a passion for dance. For many years, she has been a competitive dancer. She has had more late nights at the studio than I can count. She has had many weekends away as we travel to competitions. Nutcracker performances are all-consuming during the month of December. Because we homeschool, we have the flexibility to adjust our schedule to meet her academic needs while allowing her to do what she loves without worrying about homework or attendance records.
Homeschooling gives kids the time and flexibility to explore their passion for art, music, dance, sports, and more.
We can travel when we want. Some of our fondest vacation memories are from our trips to Disney World. We always go in September after Labor Day – after public school kids are back in session. The crowds are smaller so the lines are shorter. There are more reservations available to dine with our favorite characters.
We haven’t been in the past few years, because my middle one has been attending the local public high school. We stick to his schedule for holidays and vacation so we can include him for now. However, I’m very much looking forward to a more flexible schedule next year when he heads off to college. Em and I will be able to pick up and go whenever e want without leaving anyone behind.
We love having the ability to travel during the off-season. We also enjoy taking field trips right before or after public schools go back in session. Typically, they don’t take field trips on the first day after a holiday or during the first few weeks of school. So, we try to take advantage of these ‘dead’ times.
No dress code! Well, unless you want to count our pjs as our dress code. More often than not, Em does her schoolwork in her pjs. She doesn’t tend to get dressed until close to when the neighborhood kids will get home from school. There’s no need. I don’t care if she’s in her kitty cat fleece pants, a plaid skirt/polo, or a pair of cut-off jeans her brother outgrew. No one’s going to see her (other than the UPS guy), I don’t care!
I love that my kids don’t care about name brands. I love that I’m not scouring the mall every August looking to outfit my kids with a brand new wardrobe for school. I’m also not worrying about the costs involved in having to dress them in school uniforms.
What unexpected benefits have you discovered along your homeschool journey?
This post is part of my ABC’s of Homeschooling series! To read the entire series, visit my ABCs of Homeschooling page. I’ll add to this page each day as the posts go live.
Belinda Letchford says
Yes, I agree with each one of these. Another benefit is the relationship the siblings have time to develop. Of course, I have seen siblings been friends when they go to school – but I have enjoyed seeing them spend so much time together, be able to sort out their differences, be able to support each others strengths and weaknesses – simply be involved in each other’s lives which builds a great foundation for a long term relationship. I’ve visiting from Thoughtful Spot Blog Hop.
Mother of 3 says
Yes! I have been amazed at all that I did not know and that my boys have taught me. We love vacationing in the off season too. That is such a nice added bonus.
Ann says
We recently moved back to the US after having kids in Germany. Homeschool is illegal there, and we moved back with the plan to send them to public schools. And while we’re still going on with our plan to go to public school, I’ve been very tempted to try homeschool for the exact reasons you mentioned. Thanks for sharing!
Courtney @ Mommy & Her Men says
Yes! I’m amazed at how much I’ve learned at the same time as my kids! I’m a reading teacher by nature, and I’ve been so surprised at how much science and history I’ve taken in by working with them in their units!
Brandi says
Homeschooling is such a blessing for all of these things! I do have to admit, however, that I’ve always made my kids get dressed for the day. When other kids say, “Oh cool, you get to stay in your pajamas all day!” My kids always have to reply, “We don’t get to.” 😉
Tara says
I didn’t allow pajama days in the beginning. However, 15 years later, my dd is in pjs more often than not during a school day. I’ve quit caring about perception. 🙂
Sandy Sandmeyer says
I think being able to spend such quality time with my child would be the best benefit of homeschooling and I admire parents who can do that. Thanks for sharing your post at the Over the Moon Link Party.
Lisa/SyncopatedMama says
Honestly, with the exception of a few cases/reasons, I just can’t see why homeschooling *wouldn’t* be the best option! I love this list! Thanks for joining us at #FridayFrivolity and hope to see you again next time!
Jamie says
I’ve heard from a lot of people that recommend it! Thank you for sharing this with us at the #HomeMattersParty
Aimee Imbeau says
I tend to tell people that I am homeschooling myself – not just my kids – because I am learning so much with them! And, yes, our school uniform is our PJ’s:O
Thanks for linking up with Grace and Truth.
Amanda says
I think your first point, learning with your child, is super important. Many parents don’t think they have enough knowledge to teach their kids, but you really don’t need to know everything to homeschool. You just have to be willing to learn with them.
Tara says
Absolutely!
Jodi | Kitchen Table Classroom says
I couldn’t resist clicking on this because this was the topic of my last blog post too! I love how we all get something different out of homeschooling! Thanks for sharing!!